Wednesday, December 24, 2014

What can happen in a second?

I know it sounds strange, but in a second your life could change. It only took one second for me. I had never thought about having children. I had never seriously thought about being married, having a home and a lawn to mow and bills to pay. I didn’t get the opportunity to feel like a responsible adult before I abruptly became a responsible mother. An accident? A blessing in disguise? A sign that my life needed to change? I have never known exactly what to call it. Being a mother is something else, I can say that much. Being responsible for a tiny, beautiful, ever-changing human-being is so difficult, and so wonderful.

When was this second that changed my life? It was on June 19, 2008: the second I looked into her big, beautiful eyes, and knew that I would never love anything the way I love her. It’s a great and terrible thing: finally knowing how much love you possess, realizing that there is one person that you would do anything for, understanding that this means 18+ years of ups and downs, tears and smiles, hugs and fights… realizations that can change a person entirely… realizations that changed ME entirely… in a second.


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